Tuesday, October 30, 2007

A New Earth- Awakening to Your Life's Purpose

I have had weird feelings that have been hitting me lately.When I look at the world, I am wondering where's the sense in it? Everything seems ludicrous.For example, I was watching a football game on TV the other day. The players went out and tried to smash each other and injure each other for what? It seems pointless. There are many times where I feel like I'm an alien from another planet, looking in on the earth, and everything that I see seems strange and ridiculous.




Amazingly, I had this book, A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle, author also of the Power of Now. I had read it last year and it really did not make much sense to me. In fact,I found it quite boring. Then I found it again, and wow! I could not put it down.It spoke so much to me and answered so many questions that I had been struggling with.

When I read this paragraph, "Many people who are going through the early stages of the awakening process are no longer certain what their outer purpose is. What drives the world no longer drives them. Seeing the madness of our civilization so clearly, they may feel alienated from the culture around them. Some feel that they inhabit a no-man's land between two worlds. They are no longer run by ego, yet the arising awareness has not yet become fully integrated into their lives. Inner and outer purpose have not merged," I thought this is me. This is what I have been feeling. I have been walking in a fog because I had no idea why I am here. Tolle talks about inner and outer purpose and how the two are intertwined. He really brings a lot of clarity to this topic. Being present in a life and transcending ego based consciousness is a necessary path to take if we want to truly attain happiness and end suffering. I could relate to this book on so many levels. It really was profound and life changing for me.

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Review Of Indygo Artwear Girls Boutique Clothing

What I liked about Indygo Artwear was that each outfit was hand painted, virtually an original. The company has been around for at least a decade and is based in Capetown, South Africa. The knit dresses, pant sets and skirt sets are top quality and very well made. The colors are hand-mixed and exquisite. Well worth the retail prices. Indygo artwear can be found in approx. 500 stores, mostly in the USA.

One example is the Indygo Artwear Sugar Doll Top and Skirt:

This outfit is gorgeously handpainted in blue, white, pink and purple floral designs.The top is pink and lilac (almost a tie-dye effect) knit with flared sleeves. The skirt is denim with the bottom, lettuce cut ruffles in lilac pink knit material.
Can be found in my ecrater store
.

Thursday, October 25, 2007

What is the Purpose of Life Anyway?

Lately, I have been in a quandary about things and some of it may be due to the fact that my oldest son left for college. Right before that happened, my youngest son came down with really severe digestive problems that we are still in the process of dealing with. In the midst of it all, the question, what is the purpose of my life reared its ugly head. It's a question that has been haunting me off and on for several years and I still don't know the answer. Sometimes, I think I know but then whatever satisfaction I get from that answer, disappears and I am left with the feeling of being lost with no idea of what direction to go in. Friends have been trying to tell me that I am mourning the loss of my older son leaving for school and that is why I feel like I don't have a sense of purpose. I'm sure that is part of it, more likely mourning the loss of my changing role as a mother. I know I am still a mom and I have my younger son who needs me more than ever.

I came across a very interesting site, Steve Pavlina.com
Personal Development for Smart People. He has an article on how to discover your purpose in 20 minutes. It was an interesting exercise where you write down everything that comes to mind on a blank sheet of paper in response to the question of What is the Purpose of Your Life? If it makes you cry, that statement is your purpose. Well, it didn't work for me and for some it does take longer. I will have to go back and give it a longer shot I think.

Maybe I have multiple purposes and they change every couple of years, I don't know. I do know that being kind to others, being the best person I can be and helping out when I can is part of my purpose. I'm just not sure about the rest.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Flu or something else?

Just a few days ago, I was elated as my youngest son had started to comeback from a serious problem with his digestive system. It began 5 months ago when he suddenly could not digest foods and was having chronic bouts of D and gas and cramping. He became intolerant to many foods and could not have dairy. We spent a lot of time in doctors offices and had to be sent 3 hours away to Children's Hospital. Their tests showed nothing. They said it could be irritable bowel syndrome but they did not know for sure. In the meantime, my kid was rapidly wasting away. He dropped 12 lbs in a month. I went online and started to do my own research, I found the IBS forum which was most helpful as well as Help for IBS.com. I switched his diet around completely to very low fat and less insoluble fiber, put him on probiotics- Digestive Advantage for IBS , calcium caltrate to control the D and digestive enzymes. Also had to put him on high calorie smoothies made from rice milk and dairy free ice cream. Andy symptoms were now under control and 3 weeks ago, he was able to incorporate dairy back in and eat some of the normal foods that he was eating prior to becoming ill. He had gained back about 8 of the lbs he lost.

This past weekend, he became sick with a head cold and now over 4 days, he has been having massive D and stomach cramping and gas. He's been out of school for 3 days and
not sure he will be able to go back this week. It has been bad, about as bad as when his symptoms first started. I don't know if he has the flu or not, it is hard to tell. I guess we will have to wait it out but it sure is discouraging.

His birthday party was supposed to be this weekend and we were going to have pizza and ice cream. That is all going to have to be put on the back burner for now.

Monday, October 22, 2007

Zome Explorer Kit


This is the award winning Zome Explorer Kit, brand new in box.This kit explores "relationships between Platonic solids, tilings,foreshortenings, packings and more. The Zome System links nature, science, mathematics, art and architecture together. The Zome System was used by double Nobel Prize winner Linus Pauling , by NASA and other leading scientists, ." Comes with 484 parts: 100 white nodes, 64 each of 3 lengths blue struts, 40 each of 3 lengths yellow struts,24 each of 3 lengths red struts. Also comes with instruction booklet with models and bubble recipes and with sturdy case for storage.


Ages 6 to 106.

Winner of The Parent's Choice: Gold Award 1999, Dr. Toy: 100 Best Children's Products 1999.


$45.00

















Sunday, October 21, 2007

Zoodles Blue Snowman Top and Jumper 2T


This cute blue jumper comes with snowman and penguins embellished with red and white polka dot bows with pink, clear and red rhinestones. The small picture on the back has a lone snowman. The knit turtleneck is blue and white striped.

Zoodles Size chart for 2T

Height: 35 inches
Weight: 25-29 inches
Waist: 20.5 inches





Jumper and Matching Bow $28.00 (comes in 4T too)

















Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Boutique Rosalina Red Gingham Strawberry Top and Capris 4T


This is an adorable sleeveless red and white gingham strawberry outfit from Rosalina, size 4T. Has white pilgrim collar with red trim and scalloped on bottom front. The top has 2 red buttons down the back.3 luscious strawberries embroidered on the collar . The capri length pantalones have an elastic ruffled waist and ruffled pant legs . Each is trimmed with a large white bow.Both top and pants come with a white cotton lining. This cute quality summer outfit will look smashing on your little girl.


Size chart 4T
Top Length:18.75
Width (taken from seam to seam under arms) 14
Pants Inseam: 11 in.
Waist: 19.5-20 in.



$22.97 and available in 2T and 3T

















Monday, October 15, 2007

Boutique Anavini Smocked Coral Dress Size 4




This is an adorable one piece pink colored dress by Anavini. Comes with a white Peter Pan color trimmed in the pink fabric. White and pink centered flowers embellish the smocked bodice and are also the print pattern for the entire outfit. The dress has 3 buttons and ties in the back. A sweet outfit for your little girl.

Size 4
Length from center back to hem is 24.25 in.


$28.97 and comes also in sizes 5,6,6X

















Saturday, October 13, 2007

Boutique Rosalina Yellow Duck Top and Capris




This is an absolutely adorable Rosalina yellow small checked gingham duck outfit 3 Toddler complete with detachable bows on pants and top. The A line top buttons at the shoulders and has a mother and baby duck embroidered on the front. Top ends in a light blue 3 inch hem. The capris or pantaloons have an elastic waist and elastic
hem for the legs. Both top and bottoms have a white lining also. This is a quality outfit that will so cute on your little girl.

Size 3T
Top Length: 18.5 in.
Top Width (from bottom armhole to armhole) 14.25 in.

Pants: Waist 19-19.5 in.
Inseam 10.75 in.


$22.97 and also comes in 4T

















Thursday, October 11, 2007

Baby Lulu Blue Pink Floral Dress 24 M


This is a cute Baby Lulu Dress size 24 Months. Has pink and off white plaid trim on collar, short sleeves and on hem. Dress is a blue green with pink flowers and yellow centers. Has white writing throughout dress.Pink and blue felt flower on front. 3 pink buttons down the back. Has faint blue flowers embossed throughout dress and which gives a different look to it.


Size 24 Months
Length from back of neck to hem is 18 3/4 in.



$14.97
















Tuesday, October 09, 2007

Lipstik Daisy Dream Pink Top and Jeans 6X




This very sweet Daisy Dream outfit,size 6X, is by Lipstik. This cute pink knit shirt is full of green, lilac,pink and yellow sequin flowers. Flowers centers are pink,orange,lilac,blue and green beads. One large purple stone center, green and white beads outline some of the flowers. Also has white,pink blue,green, purple flower printed background. V neck trimmed in blue lace. Washed jeans trimmed in same blue lace on the waist,pockets and on pants cuff. Same color sequin flowers on pants as on top.

Size Chart 6X

Shirt Length- 16 3/4 in.
Width (from side seam to side seam) 11 3/4 in
Jean Length- 22 in
Waist- 22 in



This item is $63.00 + shipping


















Sunday, October 07, 2007

Boutique Anavini Coral Pink Romper Bubble


I thought I would showcase some of the products I am selling on my blog. Anavini makes smocked quality boutique girls clothing. This is an adorable one piece coral pink colored outfit. Comes with a white Peter Pan color trimmed in the pink fabric. White and pink centered flowers embellish the smocked bodice and are also the print pattern for the entire outfit. The bubble has 3 buttons and ties in the back. The back of the legs are elastic and there are 5 plastic snaps at the bottom.


Size 12 Months
Length from center back to hem is 18.75 in.
Pant inseam is 3 in.

This is also available in sizes in 18M and 24M sizes.



$28.00


















Thursday, October 04, 2007

Blog Rush


I heard about this site called Blog Rush from A Bead A Day. There has been a lot of hype about it and it is supposed to bring targeted blog traffic to your site but when I went to sign up , the site was revamping things and I cannot get into the dashboard yet. Here is a letter explaining all the new changes:


TO: All BlogRush Members
FROM: John Reese, Founder of BlogRush

ARE YOU READY? Because *everything* is about to change. Forget everything else up until now…

PREPARE FOR *BIG* CHANGES! (TWO MAJOR CHANGES ARE NOW LIVE.)

BlogRush CAN’T EXIST if we’re not sending you a lot of ongoing, targeted traffic. We fully recognize this and that’s why this is our ONLY FOCUS.

The BlogRush team has been hard at work making major improvements for you and we won’t rest until BlogRush is running 100% smoothly and sending you tons of targeted traffic! This is OUR MISSION. Please know that our entire team is working around-the-clock to make improvements and fix any problems AS FAST AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE.

(We sincerely appreciate your patience.)

We’ve encountered some problems since our historic launch just over a week ago, and we fully recognize that we’ve made some real ‘goofs’ with the system for our Public Beta release…

For example, our data center provider (one of the largest in the world) had a short, temporary outage (they had to replace a network switch) two days after our launch. We had no control over this outage but want to SINCERELY APOLOGIZE to those that saw this message on their blogs (where the widget should have been):

“We are currently experiencing some technical issues and the site will be back online shortly. Please come back in a few minutes.”

We were completely *EMBARRASSED* when we realized this happened. That simple message was part of our application code and was meant to appear only on *OUR* WEB SITE PAGES if we ever experienced an outage. This was accidentally ‘marked’ to be a global error message for ANY outage — including if our widget ever had a problem loading. This was a major GOOF and we’re willing to admit it. Our code was planned so that in the case of a problem with our widget, NOTHING WOULD LOAD in its place. So a visitor to your blog doesn’t see an error or anything wrong should the widget ever have any technical issues.

This was quickly corrected and is now working properly. Should the widget ever have any problem loading in the future, your blog will be served a transparent space (which will show whatever background your blog design has) and your blog readers won’t really notice anything.

Again, our sincere apologies for our major goof. It was quite embarrassing.

NOW ONTO SOME SERIOUS ISSUES…

We also realize that we completely underestimated the number of unethical people that would sign up and proceed to CHEAT and try to ‘game’ the BlogRush system. These cheaters ruined the click-rates of many of our members (and burned through a lot of their credits using automated ‘exploit’ methods) and hurt BlogRush’s ability to send maximum traffic to our honest members’ blogs.

BUT ALL OF THAT IS ABOUT TO BE ERASED… LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED.

In the next several days to come, we’re going to be rolling out MAJOR changes to BlogRush. BIG changes. And these changes (again) have just ONE primary purpose — to drive more ongoing, targeted traffic to your blog.

We’ve listened to your valued feedback and constructive criticism and we have been working in TURBO MODE to make the changes you want ASAP…

—– HERE’S WHAT’S COMING IN THE NEXT 48 HOURS —–

100% MANUAL BLOG REVIEW.

Our team is going to be manually reviewing every single new blog that registers to participate in the BlogRush Network.

We’ll be applying some quality guidelines and criteria to our decision-making process. (We’ll be publishing these guidelines very soon.) If a blog does not meet our guidelines and criteria, THEY WILL BE REJECTED from the network and not allowed to join — i.e. they won’t be able to serve our widget, refer other users, or have their blog posts distributed across our network. They will have no access to any BlogRush services.

Our members, like YOU, made it LOUD AND CLEAR to us… BlogRush needs to only have members that have quality blog content — not blogs filled primarily with ads and other spammy looking JUNK.

The only accurate way we’re going to keep these junk blogs out of our network is to REVIEW EVERY SINGLE ONE BY HAND. And we’re willing to do it to protect the integrity of our network. I don’t care what it costs us to hire more people (if we need them) to review 100% of any blog trying to join our network. We will be reviewing ALL OF THEM from here on out.

* We realize that several non-English language blogs blatantly ignored our “ENGLISH BLOGS ONLY” warning on our Registration page. Rest assured, though, they’ll all be PURGED from the network when we do our QUALITY CONTROL AUDIT over the next several days (you’ll read about it in a moment).

As I’ve said several times before, BlogRush isn’t some passing “fad” or short-term service. We’re dedicated to building an incredibly valuable resources for bloggers FOR MANY YEARS TO COME.

We’ll also be doing a QUALITY CONTROL AUDIT of all of our existing member blogs. We’ll be reviewing every single blog that’s currently in our network (or that registers before the Manual Review Process becomes active.) And we’ll be completely *REMOVING* any blogs in our network that don’t meet our quality guidelines and criteria.

As you can probably tell by now, we’re not messing around. We have put a lot of hard work into the development of this service and we will continue to bust our butts to make it one of the best Internet services in the world. COUNT ON IT.

We’re also deploying several new Anti-Cheat measures to SHUTDOWN AND WIPEOUT the cheaters and unethical users that have abused our network. Sorry, crooks, but THE FREE RIDE IS OVER.

We’ll be dedicating an entire department to stay on top of any abusive behavior in our network. We believe that our new measures are going to instantly eliminate most, if not all, of our system abuse. It’s going to take us a few more days to roll-out all of these measures (and to complete our entire QUALITY CONTROL AUDIT) but rest assured, BlogRush is about to go through a major TRANSFORMATION.

And a quick word to any ‘cheats’ that might be reading this letter… it’s very possible that you may come up with something extremely creative that temporarily gets by us, but you should know something… IT’S NOT GOING TO BE WORTH YOUR TIME. And I’m not just talking about the tiny amount of traffic that you’ll receive before we shut you off.

You see, we have other plans in the works…

If you attempt to cheat or abuse our network in anyway, shape, or form, we will not hesitate to come after you. Our company is well funded and has plenty of resources. And we WILL use them to punish you to the fullest extent of the law (and civil court process). Oh, you think you can just hide behind some anonymous proxy IPs? Sorry, it’s not that easy. ANY reason you’d have to try and cheat the BlogRush network for traffic and any attempt you make to monetize that traffic will lead directly to your front door — whether it’s AdSense, any affiliate program in the world, any online pharmacy, porn site, casino… ANYTHING. We will follow the trail and it WILL eventually lead to you.

Our hard-working company provides the income for MANY families. As the CEO of our company, I take this very seriously. I HAVE TO. People that attempt to abuse or cheat BlogRush are affecting the livelihood of all my employees and their families. And I will do everything in my power to protect them — it’s MY DUTY.

So for all you cheaters that joined BlogRush and had your fun trying to siphon off some traffic, hopefully it was fun. And I’ll go ahead and make this statement right now… IF you were one of the people that has been cheating our network I’m going to give you ONE opportunity… quit now and we’ll pretend it never happened. I think that’s more than fair.

BUT… if you continue after this point, all bets are off. We WILL eventually discover what you’re doing, where you’re trying to send traffic, and we will prosecute you. I GUARANTEE IT. Sorry, but WE HAVE NO CHOICE NOW.

* If you’re one of our valued, HONEST users, I’m very sorry you even have to read stuff like that. I know it’s a waste of your time. Unfortunately, there are unethical people in this world that attempt to abuse and take advantage of others.

MOVING ON…

—- ALSO COMING SOON! —-

**** A LOT MORE CATEGORIES! ****

You asked for it, and you’re getting it!

We’re going to be greatly expanding our directory of categories to increase the relevancy of post links appearing in the widget on your blog — this will also increase click-rates (and traffic) for all members.

* Stay tuned over the next several days for more news about the addition of new categories.

AND…

**** IMPROVED REPORTING! ****

The current Dashboard stats are being under-reported for all users right now. This is the reason that users show discrepancies when looking at Google Analytics data (or other stats packages). We’re currently sending more traffic to our users than we’re reporting in the Dashboard because we are giving all users bonus credits everyday. We’ll soon be reporting all bonus credit activity so all the numbers will be accurate.

SPECIAL NOTE TO ALL LOW-TRAFFIC MEMBERS: In the near future we’ll be giving our low-traffic members (those that need more traffic the most) the BULK of our bonus credit allocations. You’ll get a ton more bonus credits than high-traffic members because you really need it. It’s only FAIR!

* Also we apologize to anyone that has seen a “negative” credit balance for their account. This is a minor bug that we’re taking care of. It doesn’t mean anything and you can just ignore it for now. We apologize for any confusion.

**** IMPROVED NETWORK DISTRIBUTION ****

A few of our users have noticed that they’re building up credits faster than the system is using them. This will eventually balance itself out as the network continues to “adjust” to the growth levels and traffic patterns of each category — because our network provides syndication distribution based on daily average “cycles” and then adjusts moving into the future; so it’s able to accurately predict how fast to use a certain user’s credits, etc. — as compared to just using them all “as fast as possible.”

—- AND HERE ARE *TWO* BRAND-NEW ADDITIONS THAT JUST WENT LIVE!!!! —-

**** BLOGRUSH “FLAVORS” ARE NOW ACTIVE!

You can go login to your account, click the “Settings” tab and then select “Flavors.”

You can choose from (13) different widget colors. You no longer have to only use our original “black” widget design that many users thought was ugly! (Hey, just don’t let our lead designer hear that… he thought his black design was “really cool.”)

Now you can select a color that more closely matches the look of your blog. Our users have been asking for this since we launched our Public Beta, and we’ve taken action to offer these new options.

* We have future plans for further widget customization but we’re working on one “stage” of improvement at a time! Please bear with us. We’re fully aware of the request for a more narrow widget as our current one doesn’t fit on some blogs. We’re trying to produce a solution and should have some news soon.

HERE’S THE BEST PART…

You don’t have to copy and paste new code to your blog. Just go to that “Flavors” section for your account, select the flavor you want, then hit the “APPLY FLAVOR” button. That’s it! Reload your blog in another browser window and take a look.

And if you want to see what a different flavor might look like, just pick another one, hit the “APPLY FLAVOR” button and reload your blog. PRESTO! :-)

AND LAST BUT CERTAINLY NOT LEAST…

***** BLOG POST CONTROLS *****

Under the “Settings” tab you’ll also find a new option called, “My Post Control.” Here’s what this awesome new feature does…

You can create POST FILTERS for your blog posts…

For example, you can add a keyword or phrase and create a new post filter. If you ever create a post on your blog (while you have that filter active — and you can add/delete them at anytime) that contains one of those keywords in the TITLE of your blog post, that post…

WILL *NOT* BE SHOWN ACROSS THE NETWORK. And you won’t use any of your syndication credits!

All bloggers post “off-topic” stuff from time to time, or short posts that don’t have a ton of great content. Well, now you can easily keep any of those types of posts from using your valuable syndication credits and from being shown across the network!

This is GREAT for you because now you can control exactly which posts of yours will be syndicated. This can help you maximize your CLICK-RATES and, ultimately, the traffic you receive from the BlogRush network. AND it can help retain NEW READERS for your blog (your ultimate goal that can grow your blog’s traffic on a day-to-day basis.)

Here’s Why…

By selecting which posts get syndicated (by simply adding filters right BEFORE you publish a post on your blog that you don’t want to be used; or having setup one well in advance) you can make sure that you’re only syndicating your BEST POSTS. The ones with top-quality content. Your posts that a new visitor to your blog will enjoy and be much more likely to make a “YES!” decision to become a regular reader for you!

AND OH YEAH, ONE MORE THING…

This is only the very beginning for BlogRush. We have so much great stuff in store for you! As I said at the beginning of this letter… we will continue to work VERY HARD to make improvements and add-ons with ONE PRIMARY FOCUS…

To drive more ongoing targeted traffic to your blog.

I want to personally THANK YOU on behalf of our entire company for your interest in BlogRush. We’ve received a lot of criticism from many bloggers on the Internet, and we’ll be the first to admit we’re not perfect and a lot of it was WELL-DESERVED.

But please know, we’re busy working around the clock FOR YOU. You have our word on it.

Now go login to your account and try out some of the new “Flavors” for your blog! And also start setting up some Post Control Filters so you can start maximizing your content syndication.

I’ll be in touch when I have more “news” to share. Thanks for reading this long letter. I had a lot to tell you about. :-)

Best Regards,

John Reese, Founder of BlogRush

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Tailgating Party


Tailgating has had a long tradition. Having roots back in civil war days, it gradually developed from pre and post game parties that were held in homes until about 30 years ago when it made its way to the stadium parking lot.


My son just started college this fall and we will be heading over for our first football game in a few years. It will be fun as we will be tailgating with other couples as well as my son and his college buddies.

Tailgate menu will consists of:
cold teriyaki grilled chicken wings
barbeque chicken
hot dogs
hamburgers
potato salad
fresh fruit salad and yogurt
Tex mex dip and chips



Tex-Mex Dip (Seven-Layer)

* 2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
* 1/2 teaspoon salt
* 3 ripe Haas avocados, medium size
* 14 teaspoon ground black pepper
* 1 cup sour cream
* 1/2 cup mayonnaise or Miracle Whip® (your preference)
* 1 taco seasoning mix packet
* 2-1/2 cups bean dip, plain or jalapeƱo
* 1 cup finely chopped green onions
* 3 ripe tomatoes, seeded and chopped
* 7-ounce can ripe (black) olives, chopped
* 8 ounces sharp cheddar cheese, grated
* tortilla chips

Peel, pit and mash avocados in medium bowl. Add the lemon juice, salt and pepper.

In a separate bowl, combine the sour cream, mayonnaise, and taco seasoning.

To assemble, spread layers in the following order on a large, shallow platter or dish:

1. Bean dip mixture
2. Avocado mixture
3. Seasoned sour cream/mayonnaise mixture
4. Chopped onions
5. Chopped tomatoes
6. Chopped olives
7. Cheese

May be made in advance and refrigerated.